...a rant*? my best friend of 9 years and i kind of got into a little tiff. not a big fight or arguement, but she always seems to have something negative to say about everything i do. she says she doesnt like people i hang out with [who she's never met], what i wear, what i do, what i say. she complains about everything and gets mad if i dont listen to her commands...but if i acted anything like they way she does, she wont have it.
so why do people feel like they have the right to be that way, but get mad if its done right back to them? i know some stuff is just because she probably worries, but i dont like her complaining about small things like what i wear. i wear jeans and shirts and sweaters, and she dresses all goth/emo and i dont tell her what to wear. any advice on what i should do? i calmly told her she's too controlling, so she didnt feel like i was attacking her, but is there more i can do? we just seem to butt heads a lot lately, but she's my best friend so i want to handle this carefully...
its funny that im a gemini and she's aquarius, because it says these can be the best of friends but i dont REALLY believe in that stuff lol we really are polar opposites in almost everyway, but its always seemed to work for us before. we've never had a big fight or had a small fight that lasted more than 2 days, but this one worries me... =[
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