He's been distant and I have a feeling he is seeing someone else. When I call him he doesn't answer and gives excuses as to why he couldn't answer. I have never had to confront or argue with him ever this is literally a complete 180 in a matter of weeks. Before he was so sweet and attentive. I'm already bad with confrontation. Not only that , I still don't even know if he considers me his girlfriend. I didn't want to ask him "where we stand" because I didn't want to pressure him and all his actions and efforts were clear. But now that they AREN'T, I feel like I have no choice. What should i do? I don't want to just ignore him or not contact him because it just bothers me way too much I want to get to the bottom of it. And I don't want to sound emotional.