You have to find your solstice and take care of yourself. When my parents fought and argued, I was 8 and I discovered hockey and cars. I worked to keep my mind off of what was happening outside my room, the bathroom or bedroom, whichever was open. I also took off with my friends and my sister until thing quieted down later in the day. It made the time go easier, at least until my sister decided to run away.
Running away didn't work for her, but I've seen it work for others. If you were to do so, try to find a good friend to stay with beforehand.
Definitely, and most importantly, find someone to talk to. It's not fair what your parents are doing to themselves and you, and they are not going to be thinking rationally for a while. Keep away from it, let them deal with it themselves, and enjoy the rest of you life as much as possible. Take care
PS, my parents argued for about 3 months straight, and that was followed by a silent period where random, loud arguments would spurt up every week or two. It took about a year to get things back to normal again, and that doesn't always happen with everyone.
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