Here's the thing, I struggled for years finding my first summer job so that my dad could stop bothering me and lecturing me about finding one. This yr I finally found one which is only a part-time job, and I really thought 1,000 pounds lifted off my shoulder because I thought he would never bother/lecture me into finding a job again. However he's still complaining/bugging me, it turns out that now he's bugging me about getting "full time job" over the summer so that I would not have to "sit and do nothing". He wants me to get "another job" or "voluntary" work to fill in the "other" spots that I'm available when I really want to use my available times for relaxation because I'm always so exhausted when I come back from work. I don't want to get "another job" and I've done with my share of "voluntary" work years ago. When it comes to arguing I can never win, so I don't really know what to do now, please help!