I'm assuming bc we're in our mid thirties we're still immature and have a lot of growing upto do. SO my question is for those who are married 25 plus yrs. Do you give up the arguing? Bc you can't be bothered or is it bc you both realize it's stupid to freak out on the small stuff?

I know when I was a kid my parents were really loud, there was hitting and throwing etc and then it just sort of stopped suddenly when they hit 40. So I'm curious on other couples. And for those about to freak, no my husband and I do not hit each other. But I do wish we'd both cool our jets.