Thread: Why is it all of a sudden after seven months me and my boyfriend start arguing?

The same thing is happening with me. Only our arguments are getting more and more intense. We are at the 1 1/2 year marker. It's just something that happens naturally. At first all you can think of is how much you love that person. After a while you begin to notice their flaws and some things that you don't necessarily like about their behavior or how they treat you. So you try to address the matter, but he doesn't exactly see what's wrong because you've never taken notice to it before, so he fights back.
It's totally natural. You'll make up and love each other even more. Just to warn you, we broke up for 4 days because of an argument. So if that happens to you, just wait for him to answer back with an "I'm sorry, I was an idiot" and "I love you and still wanna be with you".

Hope this helps straighten things out for you n.n

it's probably because you're moving on. you need to plant a fresh seed in the garden of love. take some time nurturing this new plant and one day it could grow into a new strong husband plant. possibly the necture your current garden of love isn't sweet enough , hunt for more variety of seeds to water , go beyond your comfort zone . then only then will you find the strongest plant that shines the brightest and grows the talles and smells the best

It is because at 7 months, you're feelings are changing for him. Not in a bad way, but in a good way. And these feelings and emotions make us do crazy things that we never done before. This is the time where you really have to control your emotions and getting mad, because it will cause more arguments over the smallest things that will not be necessary. It is possible for arguing to bring down the foundation of a relationship. GL

Because your true colors start to come out. You disguise it at the start of a relationship kind of but it just becomes more apparent the longer into a relationship you get. It's life deal with it. Your still young it's going to happen many more times in your life.

I don't know. That's never happened to anyone in the history of ever.

It's because you both are secure enough to show you true sides after seven months or it could just be that you had each other and its old now. next please!

it happens in every relationship!

You are just starting to realize that even though you LOVE him, you just don't LIKE him very much.

it happens miss duffy

I think your finally realizing what its like to be with someone after a long period of time. Sure love is fun, but after awhile the butterflies wear off and you get down to loving being with the person instead of just being with that person.

I think its normal, but if you have doubts maybe a little time apart (not a break or a break up) would be good. Like plan a weekend away with your friends, or take a week off to see your family..
Being away from someone makes you appreciate them more, and in your case it could be just what the doctor ordered.