How long were you dating before you started thinking about the future (i.e. engagement, marriage, kids)?
Were you just joking about it at first or were you serious from the beginning?
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How long were you dating before you started thinking about the future (i.e. engagement, marriage, kids)?
Were you just joking about it at first or were you serious from the beginning?
Thanks!
When I told him all of the things I thought he'd hate about me. We'd been dating about 4 1/2 months. He's talking marriage but it's very much in the future. I had all of these things I thought would turn him off and so I thought I'd just tell him. He's still hanging around and we're stronger than ever. That's when I really thought "Wow, this could really work" in addition to always knowing that he's the one.
My husband and I had been married previously to other spouses for over 20 years. We know what we want, we know what we won't tolerate and we know where we are willing to compromise. I told him on our first date that I was looking for someone special to spend my life with and that someday, I hoped to marry again. If this was not something he ever wanted to do again in his life, it was nice to meet him. Life is too short to beat around the bush and play games. I didn't know if he would be "the one" or not. I only knew that I liked being married but was married to the wrong man the first time.
By our third or fourth date, I knew he was different and that I could spend my life with him. We dated two years before getting married. We are very happy. Best wishes to you.
My husband and I had been married previously to other spouses for over 20 years. We know what we want, we know what we won't tolerate and we know where we are willing to compromise. I told him on our first date that I was looking for someone special to spend my life with and that someday, I hoped to marry again. If this was not something he ever wanted to do again in his life, it was nice to meet him. Life is too short to beat around the bush and play games. I didn't know if he would be "the one" or not. I only knew that I liked being married but was married to the wrong man the first time.
By our third or fourth date, I knew he was different and that I could spend my life with him. We dated two years before getting married. We are very happy. Best wishes to you.
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