Thread: Is there any future in this?

If you've been in a casual relationship for 3 years not from your choice but his. He doesnt want commitment. He has been seeing other women but kept it a secret saying they are just friends. All of his friends and family think you are just friends. Fell out over one of these women and didnt talk for several months. Now he's back but still offering the same thing. What to do? Demand a relationship?

Considering your description, i`d say the answer is no.

You seem to be considered as a backup plan, not a possible life partner.

I`d dump him, and find someone who is committed to you.

I suggest you RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN now before its too late.

he doesn't deserve you

youcan do better,

all the best

I suggest you RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN now before its too late.

he doesn't deserve you

youcan do better,

all the best

yeah i would or find sum1 else

this man is taking you for granted lovely!!
please do something for yourself and tell him you are better then this!!
3 years is along time for him to be playing you off as a friend!!
go and find someone who will respect you and that wants a relationship with you instead of having to demand one!!
there is someone out there that will love to be in relationship with you!!!
this man is just not it!!!