...day. Why is she so mad? FH and I went to a BBQ at FMIL and FFIL's for the 4th of July holiday. While we were there, FMIL pulled me aside and told me she wanted to be in the room with me the day of the wedding and help me get ready. I felt put on the spot, but I told her the truth-that getting ready was a special moment that I just wanted to share with the women closest to me-my mom, grandma and my bridesmaids-my sisters and my 2 cousins-that it was an intimate moment I would feel very uncomfortable sharing with her. Now she is upset, but I told the truth. I am not close to FMIL like that and that is not a moment I want to share with her. It is my wedding and I have the right to pick and choose who I want to join me in things and I don't want FMIL there. You don't always get what you want. Why can't she understand that?