my bf and i have been going for 3 months now, we met in college(we're freshmen) and all this "i think ur special" stuff started coming up about a month ago. He tells me that i am his first love(for some reason, hard for me to believe) he says he'd do anything for me and he talks about him wanting to have kids in the future. He also says that he wants to have a long term relationship with me b/c he thinks that "we" have something, and he often asks me if i want kids in the future "a little grace" or "a little kevin". I remember him asking me too that if he was a candidate to be my husband one day and that he wanted to be the only one..
Its not that i wouldn't consider him for a husband, but at the same time i really don't see him that way..but then i get to thinking about it and i figure, what if i make a mistake and i end up losing him and he is the one?
I suppose it is b/c i've only known him for 3 months and i dont quite trust him yet and i don't know whether or not to take him seriously..but really, sometimes this really scares me that he talks about those things..
So idk..what do you think I should do? I don't want to hurt his feelings, and at the same time, I don't want him to think i'll marry him one day and then end up not marrying him.
Is 18 too young to say he's found the one?
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