Thread: I'm in a long-term relationship, thinking about future but confused. We have

great chemistry (connection) but.? the problem is we are too similar in a negative way. Things that bother him, bothers me and we are both temperamental. This makes us sensitive to one another and contributes to arguments. I am starting to think if this relationship is wrong in the long- run?

Well, that's for you to decide, really.
But I will tell you - my first relationship was like that. The two of us were FAR too similar and we ended up butting heads more than we agreed on anything. For the same reasons : we both got very distant when things were bothering us and would lash out instead of talking.
It didn't last. There's no way it could have.
So now : I appreciate differences when it comes to dating. Differences means you have things to discover about each other and you're always being surprised.