ourselfs in future? I am 30 and she is 24 we are married for the past 6 years and we were really loving each other ever since. until recent times after we had our 3yrs child we have been having several misunderstandings and have fought at occasions terribly which resulted for me to get satisfaction through other women/ prostitutes and recently I too figured out that she going out with her ex boy friend and had sex several times. It’s because my work load and stress we couldn’t sit and talk with each other and discuss about our life. I couldn’t resist it and I refused her at the beginning and have accepted her again. I am in doubt that we will be able to continue our life happily with all the above incidents and will we go out again and mess up our life which will indeed cause a bad future to my child. Can anyone tell me how to sort out things??