Thread: How do I learn to deal with the ex wife and the fact that she will always be in

my future husband's life ? I am so insecure with this fact. He is actually still married, thought just on paper. Stays married, just on paper, for the medical benefits, until her lands a full time job. There are 3 kids in the picture. The whole family knows and accepts me wonderfully. We do have plans on marrying in the near future. He does everything right, and deep down I have no issues that he has unresolved feelings for her. My insecurities make it hard for me to accept he had a 10 year past, and there are children they share. This man loves me deeply and he himself gives me no reason to feel insecure. I know the divorce is around the corner, but somehow I'm on an emotional "rollercoaster" when it comes to her. When she goes by his home to pick up the kids/or drop off, I become a nervous wreck because I wonder what is transpiring. Someone with some experienc, I could really use some help. I can't eat or sleep anymore, yet this relationship is so great!!! HELP!! ADVICE!!!

One moment at a time.

You need to learn humility.

Humble yourself BEFORE life does it for you!