My wedding is next summer, and I love that my future mother in law wants to help. However, I don't like a lot of her suggestions and I feel bad that I don't really want to use the ideas she suggests for decorating and other aspects of the wedding. Foe example, I don't want to do engagement announcements, or put an announcement in the newspaper. Also, I want to have invites made, not just buy the paper and print them off using a laser printer. How can I deal with this without creating animosity between us?