Im in bits at the moment i read the following text messages on my best mates phone from my wife:

1 If i wasn't with Rob (me) who knows what would happen between us.

2 I wish Rob Was more like you.

3 If you get with our next door neighbour it will stop me liking you so much.

4 Sorry about what happened i Was feeling vulnerable just ignore me.

It happened on wednesday my wife says they were all innocent were are having problems at the moment. My mate comes round every night and sits in with us hes like very sensitive my wife says if he was a girl he would be her best mate. She said it was to give him more confidence to get with our neighbour who really Fancy's him and my wife had no one else to talk to about our problems. I told her i found the texts she denied them at first kicked off at me for not trusting her and packed her bags she does this all the time until i beg her to stay. I don't thing anything has happened between them but she doesn't understand why i feel hurt and has given me to 15.00 today or shell leave i cant get my head around it why doesn't she see why i feel hurt please help me i cant bear to lose her and i love her so much.