day. Should I tell my son? Last night, I told FDIL that I would be honored if she would consider wearing some heirloom jewelry from my family on her wedding day-I offered her my mother's choker and earrings and my grandmother's charm bracelet. FDIL flatly said no, that she would be wearing HER family's jewelry on HER big day (and she said it just like that). She will wear her mother's earrings and her great grandmother's bracelet and her grandma's ring. FDIL didn't even look at pictures I had taken of the jewelry-she just rejected the pieces and seemed annoyed that I would even have the nerve to ask her. I understand that it is her decision, but I feel that she has no idea how special it would be to me and others in our family to see her wear the jewelry and feel that our family is represented, especially as FDIL has not even tried to include me or our family in her plans for the wedding. Should I tell my son how hurt I am and how bad I felt her attitude was?
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