...making poor choices? I'm 24 years old, in nursing school and I still live with my parents. I've been dating my current boyfriend for more than 8 months and he's a year older than me and still lives at home with his father. I had met him in my nursing program but he dropped out, in hopes to switch to the RPN program and graduate earlier. It never happened because someone had to drop out in order for him to get a seat. So, he's been working at his job looking after handicap people in a home 36 hours a week and makes half decent money. We get along really well, and I like him very much. My parents like him as well, which makes it easier.
My problems is, my boyfriend talks a lot about things that just don't seem to add up. "Get rich quick." For example, in the beginning he talked to me about how much money his dad had... how much is dad was worth... and they were going to build houses up north and sell them either next year or the year following that and make all this "money". Currently his dad is fixing up the house they live in, will retire next year and is now talking about moving to Alberta. It's all over the place. My boyfriend is an only child, and comes from divorced parents and in my opinion, is spoiled. He still uses his dad's credit card for some things and his mother sends him money to his bank account. He only just moved here last year and has minimal friends. His home town is 2 hours away.
Today, his best friend moved in to his house. His best friend who is 24, unemployed, flunked out of nursing last year because he drank too much, sleeps with 18 year olds because no-one his age will date him, and lost his drivers license because he crashed into a pole and had a DUI. His friend moved down here so he could get out the 'partying' scene, find a part time job and go back to school in September. So far, tonight they're drinking beer and watching the video games. No resumes made up yet.
I'll be 25, and I feel that I'm looking for someone who I see a future with, and I'm worried with all of this going on, that it doesn't seem like there could be one. I don't know how to approach this situation, or how anyone else would handle it. I don't want him thinking I'd stick around through this, because I'm not dating someone who just wants to fuck around and not grow up. Am I out of my nut?
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