okay in my family i have been getting mixed signals for years. i'm 15 year old guy and my grandpa and great uncle and great aunt have been telling me for years to have a child when i'm atmost 20. they said they would support me if i had a kid when i'm 16! i really respect them (way more than my parent) but my mom has told me for years to wait to have children...so what should i do wait or get married and get some lucky girl knocked up?