Thread: Before you realised you were gay how did you imagine you're future relationships?

Did you ever imagine yourself married to someone of the same sex.

I remember when I was younger and I tried to imagine my adult life I couldn't really picture it very well, and I couldn't ever think of a situation where I would feel normal being with a man. It kind of made me afraid to grow up cos I just assumed I would be alone and depressed, I stopped myself from thinking about my future at all and instead made up these stories about a guy called Justin doing all the things that I actually wished I could do.

What about y'all?

When i tried my hardest to picture my future if there was a man living with me he was a roommate or a really close friend. I remember thinking thats not right. I was like where is the spouse?? So after that i stopped picturing it and just thought we'll see what happens. I didnt think i would turn out to be a lesbian though so i was kind of like OHHHHHHH when i realized i was.