I filed charges on my boyfriend (at the time he was my ex) but we have been together for 6 years and realized it was a mistake. Other people were involved and they're still pressing the charges but I really just want mine dropped. I mean they can't tell me no can they? His lawyer told him something about me dropping the charge to him but now I have to go back because they're not dropping the charge. Can I just not say anything? Plead the 5th? And looking back what he did wasn't his fault, it was a whole different person's fault..It's a long story but what he did himself wasn't wrong. Please Help!! And again this is in Tennessee. Thanks!!