Ok I work in a small Insurnace office with just my boss and I. He is 59 I am 32. He is married I am not but I am in a comitted long term relationship. We do not have an outside of work relationship, we do talk about our lives, but nothing intimate. Well anyway for Christmas, he got me a pair of vibrating underware. It came with a remote that he had behind his desk, so when I opened it, he turned it on! I almost died! I couldn't beliveve he gave me that...Well anyway, it bothered me so much I cannot go in today, I just cant get myself to do it. I did take the present, cause I felt I may need it to show my working conditions. I have known he has been doing things to himself in his office if you know what I mean, and that he is into porn at work, but up until now, he has never bothered me, Do you feel this is a legitimate form a sexual harassment?