I have two dogs, and I really want a good relationship with both of them. One of them might die soon, so I really want to enjoy my time with her, but then I feel like the other one is jealous. Most of the time if I pet them at the same time, my older dog gets jealous and attacks the younger one. My older dog has had surgery on her leg that she has arthritis on, is epileptic, and has kidney problems. My younger dog has stupidity issues. What are some good ways to bond with both of them? PS I can't walk them, they are too big for me to handle for more than a few minutes. All help is appreciated! Thanks!

Abby