about dying. Is she depressed? My mom has a history of depression and antidepressant-usage, but she isn't on any meds right now. She is in her late forties, and is currently in college to finally earn herself a teaching degree. But it stresses her out soooo badly and it seems like she hates it; she constantly forces her problems onto the rest of us family members even though most of us are also in school and have our own problems. It's getting frustrating and becoming a problem for me, but I'm also worried about her. She has a heart condition that will later require surgery, but she has talked about skipping the surgery and "just dying". She and my father are still married and living together, but I feel like he's given up on trying to help her because he doesn't seem completely concerned at this time. Maybe he's too busy trying to support my siblings. Maybe he feels like he'll never figure out how to help her; she has always been very unaccepting of help from us.
I'm just not sure whether or not she complains and yells at us because it's her way of asking for help, or if it's just how she copes.
Depressed? Suicidal? Should I try to intervene in some way?
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