I have a dileofftopic. I am studying petroleum engineering. I will make good money if I graduate, but I am miserable where I live now.
The thing is that I live in a very small city and there ain't really any places I can go to have fun. I spend alot of my time in front of the computer. I think that it makes me miserable that I spend so much time in front of the computer, but I can't really go anywhere to have fun. It feels like I am in a freaking prison.
I think that I kind of have tried to sabotage my own studys lately. I will be kicked out from the university if I fail in enough subjects. However I got my grades back today and I didn't fail enought to be kicked out.
I have a girlfriend. She moved after me to this place even though I told her not to. I like cuddeling with her. she is nice.. but I think I got a different view on live than her. She wants to grow old..buy a house.. make some kids... and just rotten away. We usually go to the cinemas and stuff like that and I hate that. I think it is so ****ing boring. she is beautiful but she is boring to be with.
I talked to a friend of me about this. He sugjested that I should move back to the place I lived before. I would really like that. He even offered to help me. I have had problems with eating properly and sleeping the last year and suddenly I had an apatiete again. It was like my life had a purpose again.
I will probably get a good future, If I stay in this hell hole and I graduate in a couple of years. My familie expects it from me. But I feel horrible. I hate mylife right now and I am not the kind of person that usually wine.
I might make a good future for myself if I move to and I really want to do it. I would loose alot of money considering the time and money I have used to study petroleum. It would break my girlfriends hearth if I moved, but I am breaking my own hearth everyday where I am now.
Reasons for not moving:
- I will loose alot of money and resources. Considering all the time I have spent on this + that I will probably not educate myself for anything else that will pay as good as petroleum engineering.
- I will break my girlfriends heart.
- I am afraid of leting go of my life even though I hate it.
Reasons for moving
- I really want to.
- I am depressed right now. I think it will be better if I move.
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