do I let it go to foreclosure? We just purchased the home about 14 months ago, and financed the whole thing, so there is no equity in it right now. Obviously we bought it considering both our incomes, but now she took off and I am left to clean up the mess. We have a lot of debt on credit cards together as well as a 20,000 loan for our wedding. What takes priority here? The house has been on the market for a month now, but she has been gone for 3 months. I am flat out of money at this point. Where do I start? (yes divorce papers are being drawn up)