so how was ur day??? oh really that sounds fun how was it?? oh hows the daughter?? awww blah blah blah questions about the daughter... today this funny thing /bad thing / good thing / weird thing etc happened proceed to tell the events of your day.... hows the sister?? flirting example so when are u going to make me some (insert favorite food) ya know i love me some of that (insert favorite food again)! so whats your favorite food?? remember the time when (insert memory) happened? hahaha that was so great!
questions like that will lead to feedback and more in depth conversation and keep the awkward silence out of the phone convo... just be you and talk to her about whatever is on your mind!! the conversation will start flowing as im sure she also has many things on her mind that she wants to talk about... just show her that u are genuinely interested in what she's saying be a good listener and remember people especially females love talking about themselves and their kids
