Thread: Is the site Christian Mingle a scam?

I'm not sure if I should get a membership or not.

I have reviewed it but I am uncertain if it is a scam. I can say, I have only heard good reviews about Eharmony.com however the application process is lengthy and instead of you choosing your potential spouse or date, they choose them based upon your preferences in your profile matched against others on the site.

No it is not a scam I met some nice guys there. E-harmony sucks though, very expensive and annoying.

I did not pay for membership and wanted to see if any eligable bachelors in my age range and location would write to me before I join. I would get some dummy email messages to get me to join so I can read their decoy message. The message/person may or may not exist.

Really lame. Don't waste your time on this garbage.

Yes, I talked with a man from the UK, very sweet & kind talkiing- I really cared for him and he supposedly was going to visit me in the US, but that didnt happen. All he wanted was your money.

I don't believe it is, but it isn't free! Ha! I believe they're like all the other date sites tryna make money! I am not disappointed because I recognized a friend of mine on there and now I can't even afford to 'HOOK UP' with him because you can cruise through lookin' all you want, but you just can't touch unless you pay up first!

I had the same experience. I met a guy who told me he was in Ireland on a project. He did not ask for money but he claims to have a daughter and everything he told me were lies. Thank GOD I figured him out pretty quickly. I am sure there are good people on there you just have to be aware of who you hook up with.

Can you tell more about this man who claimed to be working on a project in Ireland with a daughter? I'm curious if this is the same guy who my friend has been in touched with at this dating site. I appreciate the extra information. Thanks.

"hook up" means intercourse. and all that you typed shows you are very far from being christian. that should answer peoples questions about the site if there are more like you on christian mingles. fail

Originally Posted by Unregistered

I don't believe it is, but it isn't free! Ha! I believe they're like all the other date sites tryna make money! I am not disappointed because I recognized a friend of mine on there and now I can't even afford to 'HOOK UP' with him because you can cruise through lookin' all you want, but you just can't touch unless you pay up first!

I do not feel good about the treatment I received at Christian Mingle.
They had a contract with me as one of the first members, a lifetime
membership that they offered at the time. I paid for the membership,
only to find later that they would not allow me to receive email notifications
which they used against me to say that I was not logging in frequently enough,
when in fact, no such warning was given in at the time they sold the membership.
I would warn anyone to be aware that this company does not follow through
with its policies, and does take advantage of people, as in my case.