bmb23

im 45, i rank my looks as others do, like a 5 r 6 , i think i look oretty good for whom i am, my personality is great and im witty, i do on the other hand, have problems meeting a women, im getting pretty l;onely at this point of life being devorce after a year, ive tried dateing on the internet but no luck really, just games. i want to meet a good women, i have problems going up to a women and talk, im going out for the first time in a while, trying to meet someone, ladys, if you can help me with this what to say and how to approch will be thankfull,,

blondie32

Well what i would do first is just in joy yourself plus be happy with who you are. Do stuff you like doing and have fun. Then one day when your not looking for a woman you well past by her like is a dream or something. Just injoy who you are. You also need to find out what kind of woman you like then go from there. So i hope that can help you. I wish you the best.

JOJOJO

dont be cheesey and say slimey things. just be yourself and treat them as a friend and nothing more. dont make out that your looking for a girlfriend or act interested.

too eager makes it creepy

you can start off by making up some stuff and say, 'my sister has that dress i thought you was her at first'., then say she looks better in it.....

but then i could be all wrong, it does depend what girl you chat to.

good luck

Pretty In Punk

i wouldnt completely rule out online dating my mom did it for a while and met some great people but also some creepers. i met my bf via myspace. but you do have to be careful.
you could try singles dances? my mother also went to them and found a few good people or go to some place that interests you and you may bump into someone there and theyd share some interests.
sometimes the good way is to have a friend hook you up but that also has a downfall if you dont click it can be awkward. ive never had luck that way but my mom met her 2nd husband that way and theyre happy.

hope that can help!

Katie

just be yourself dont get nervous. just say hey and introduse your self tell her alittle bit about you and give her a complament like "you look very pretty." or "i like you dress." or something like that but dont lie to her and say your a big rich guy who lives in san diago and owns 14 corvettes and has met the olsen twins 5 times just stay cool dont sweat and DO NOT KISS ON THE FIRST DATE!!! well that is if you get a second one..... not to be rude or anything just saying that girls dont like it when guys are like hey sweety or lean in to kiss so be cool and be yourself..... and ROCK ON!!!!!!!!