bonnie b

Me and my ex are friends and have been apart almost 2 years, I am 20 he is 28.. My feelings for him have gone, I am single he isnt. I asked him if he loved his new gf and he said he isnt sure and that he does have feelings for her. Altough he keeps asking me to well do certain things with him, in a sexual nature. He says we basically had the best sex together in his life.. He finished with me too.,,
So my question is do you think you can love someone but cheat on them at the same time, ie like what I just mentioned..
By the way, I am not having sex with him.. We meet for dinner and movies but nothing happens although its hard because I do find him attractive still.. But I aint leading him on.
Er? I've clearly stated I made it clear me and him arent going to have fun together :~S read properly..
His a friend I aint going to stay away from him, he dont pester me about it every time, its just been the odd few times he has.. An my question was.. Can you love someone and cheat on them without being drunk and fully aware of what ur doing.

nremtohio

Yes, he would be cheating on his girlfriend.

I wonder why he still feels the need to hook-up with you if he is with a new gal. I further wonder why you allow it to happen if your "feelings have gone"

You KNOW your doing the wrong thing, but yet you don't tell him that it's wrong?

Such a hard thing to do when emotions are involved.

Byakugan

well, if you love someone and cheat at the same time, its almost like, but not all the way being unfaithful. if you love him and cheat on him, that basically means he isn't really your full type.

McKennzie

Stay away he would be cheating on his girlfriend otherwise