I'm gay (not out) and at university, on my res there's 4 floors separately by guys and girls, some nights a bunch of people go down to a floor and talk, drink, have fun... anyways.. it's basically a lot of 'jock' guys... the girls are a little more diverse but it's still that vibe. I feel like I don't fit in with these people, I'm not even weird myself, I just don't relate. I'm not out and it's hard to make friends like this.. what should I do?