...info do they let you display? I'm thinking about trying eHarmony because I'm a 21 year old guy who is against drinking and sex before marriage but I'm atheist and I honestly don't know anyone in the 18-22 age range who shares these values but it's what I really would like to find in a woman, among other things like honesty. Does eHarmony allow you to specify that you are looking for things like this or does it just match you based upon other kinds of things? How was your experience with the site if you used it?