hwijin

just opposite sex but people in? general, i'm not saying just being funny, but make people enjoy listening to you rather then listen to you out of courtesy) just innate that can be very hard to develop? I'm sure you can improve somewhat by trying. but, what I mean is, can someone (who is considered boring with no sense of humor and when he tries to funny, it comes out stupid if you know what I mean) develop his ability ,by trying, to become good enough to be in tier of peoples who are considered to have sense of humor and make others enjoy talking with them? Or at least can he be in mediocre eloquent range? how about style ( hair, clothes)? anyone reading this used to in boring range and tried and succeeded to be in mediocre or above range? anyone sympathize with me?

Queen of Yack

Well first of all I would work on "getting to the point" a little quicker.
I was bored just reading this.
Anyway I think it can be worked on but to a larger degree I think it is part of the personality and how it is molded during childhood.
I don't think hair style and clothes have anything to do with it aside from being able to express yourself in a way that works for you.