So I was talking to this guy (Ray) a few months ago and he always sayin' I was his girl and stuff than he stopped texting me for like 2 months than out of the blue he texted me and we hung out his friend(Kota) was all over me but I wasn't goin' and I told kota I liked ray than ray was like I got my baby back and stuff me and ray slept together now he's always joking that we were gonna grow old together and get married and have 5 kids and the other he post on my Facebook that I'm in love with him and than on his Facebook he posted he's in love with me? but he says it like he's joking what's this mean? does he like me? why hasn't he asked me out if he's serious?