Thread: Why am I having problems during sex?

OK, so my girlfriend and I have had sex about nine times, but I've only climaxed twice, and she has about five times. Now the first time we know I couldn't because the condom cut off blood flow.

Now, I'm 20, not on any medication except the occasional melatonin to help me sleep (only 5mg), and since the first time have bought the size-bigger condoms that fit perfectly. Could a problem be that I masturbate frequently? That, and I stress easily, so are there any easy stress remedies that any of you can think of? She also is my first partner so could my unfamiliarity still be showing through?

Any help is greatly appreciated.

yeah, work on what's causing that stress, work it out or eliminate it.

diet plays a part.

take some herbal supplements to increase libidio: Ginseng (rec: GNC's Triple Ginsa Gold), Novedex XT, and this new one: Stiff Nights.

/Jerome, won't tell you to do something he hasn't done himself.

Yeah, I think that you answered your own question. Don't worry about performance, but paying attention to your partner's responses. By doing that, the sex will be spectacular for both of you.