Today i went to a gynecologist to have a pap smear done and it was painful for me. It felt so painful that the doctor could not finish giving me the exam. I asked her to stop it because it was really hurting me. I can't go through with this again. I guess it hurted so much because i am still a virgin. Everyone who has had a pap smear says that it does not hurt. Am i just the only one who feels that does? And does having a pap smear feels like sex? Because if it does, i don't care to ever it.