have any other women had this problem?

i want to have sex with my boyfriend, but i'm still in college and scared about getting pregnant. i cant take any form of hormonal birth control because of my health, and i dont want to have an abortion. so that really only leaves condoms, but i know they can split and i know people who've got pregnant whilst using them, and they didnt even realise it had split at the time.

do i have any other options, or will i have to abstain from sex until i want to have kids???

i'm 21 by the way... so what can i do?
guitar virgin: doesnt that release hormones? and i've heard they're really painful...
dane: yeah, for asking "adult" questions... lol