okay so my one of my best friends needs some help we've been friends since birth so its going on 23 years now well back about 5 years ago she sustained a head injury she got two concussions on the same spot so she gets overwhelmed very easily and lately she just is giving up, she kicked out her kids dad because he was adding to the problem instead of helping it, she lives in a house that now needs a new well so she has no water, her mom is a drug addict and she has two kids that have sever A.D.D so all of it is just bogging down on her and she knows she needs help but keeps telling me not to make it my problem and won't let me help her but I'm seriously worried about her kids she’s not in the right place now to be taking care of them she needs help but she won't let me help how do I make her see that she does.