I'm 28 and dating a 20yo that I really like. He knows I have herpes and still wants to be with me. I have dated other guys who knew about my situation, but for some reason, with him being so young, I don't want to take that step with him just because he has his entire life ahead of him and could suffer consequences of having sex with someone infected with herpes. What should I do? We are already sneaking around behind peoples backs because we shouldn't be dating in the first place and it's not because of the age thing either.