I'm 20, had my first period at 11 or 13 (I think 13), my mother never too me to the gyno or talked about sex or womanly functions (I'm still kind of mad at her for that). I haven't ever had regular periods (I've had two this year, one in Jan and one in Apr). I'm overweight, but I'm really trying to lose it (healthy of course) so I think that may have something to do with it but I don't know, my hubby and I have been TTC for over 17 months with no luck, I put of going before because if your under 35 they don't want to talk to you about TTC, and I just KNOW there is something wrong with me, but I'm sooo scared about going to the gyno. I really don't want anyone their with me, I don't have a regular GP or anything, I'm just really scared, can anyone give me any advice.