ok so im 19 ... and i never been to a female doctor, you know when you are 18 and you become sexually active, and you visit the gyno and the doctor gives you birth control..... umk so0o my question is since im 19 me and my boyfriend are waiting til marriage; shall i go now to get like a checkup make sure body is ok... or shall i wait til im actuallly gonna start having sex ??? " my mom insisted i wait "