My guy and I have been together for a while now. When we first started dating I found it kind of weird that before we did anything I kind of had to "get him going". I guess other guys I had dated were just always in a constant state of arousal. But it kind of worries me that we can be lying together completely naked and he isn't hard at all! He says that if we aren't doing anything sexual then he doesn't get hard, but regardless, if I'm NAKED, wouldn't that be enough for most guys to get an erection?

I just want to know if this if normal/other guys are like this. He is different then most guys anyway in the fact that he doesn't masturbate. Maybe the two are related?