I ask this question in all seriousness so please be nice...

I am 21 yrs old and a virgin. I have made an honest decision to wait until i am married. Ive never been with a man, no oral, no nothing. I've kissed 2 boys in my whole life but i have, what i feel, is a pretty high sex drive. I think about sex like every 15 min. I've never had sex so why is it on my mind so much? I was sexually abused as a child and i think that is why its so hyped up now. There are times when i just see a man and get all "hot and bothered." What can i do to kill my sex drive? Are there other ladies out there that feel like this? Is this normal?