I've been feeling very depressed for the past two years because I can't get over someone I fell in love with. It didn't work out and she screwed me over really badly by pretending it was working out. Anyway, I've been seeing a therapist for the past four months, once a week but it's not helping. I feel like I'm going back to the pain everytime. I've been thinking of taking medication but my therapist said that she wants me in therapy if I'm on medication. What medicine is the best for depression and how does it help? Why do I need therapy if I'm on med?