Why do people keep their problems to themselves? How come they cant trust anyone else? It really bothers me, cause some of my really good friends are like that, and you can see them hurting soooo much, but they refuse to tell you whats wrong. And Im the complete opposite, I rely on my friends for everything. I tell them my secrets and I cry on their shoulder and they just cant do it. And it scares me because I love them. And I hate being left out in the dark, which is whats happening. And I know somethings horribly wrong with at least one of my friends because shes completely changed and then a very reliable source told me that she gets beat by her dad. What the heck? I know shes scared and everything but Ive told her my worst secrets, like being sexually abused. Thats just as bad. And I did that. I trusted her. Why cant she trust me back. Were like best friends, or so I thought we were. And Im freaking out. Can someone explain to me why they do this? Please? Thanks.