the motivation required? I'm a woman in need of help from any and all of you!! I've struggled with alcohol abuse and a weight problem my entire life. I feel that I'm at a point in my life wher I may FINALLY be able to attack these demons with some success, but I believe my greatest fear is how am I going to be able to do it for good, this time?? Right now, my motivation is very high, to control my drinking, lose some weight, get healthy, physically and mentally for the first time in my life. But, I want to do it for good. So many times before, too numerous too mention, I've been at this same spot in the road. And I could cry just writing this, but I've always gotten lost somewhere along the way. Won't someone please help me stay on the right path!!