...i've got a lovely council house? which i lived in with my ex partner. when he left me i suffered from anxiety and depression which left me house bound. i have put on 4 stone and couldnt work. my life was in a mess. i knew i had to do something before i did something stupid. i moved into my friends boyfriends flat in birmingham got a job and was really happy. my friends boyfriend wants his flat back. I do not want to go back tp my house in Worcestershire. the affect it has on my mental health is frightening. I want to move to Birmingham perminantly, however ive got high rent arrears on my house that need paying off until i can exchange. My other option is to give my house up and privately rent. I dont no what to do. The right thing would be to move back to my house and pay off the rent arrears and exchange but i am a hermit in worcestershire and im scared to go in that dark place again. what should i do?