hi i am a 17 year old girl and two nights ago i found a lump when i was putting my earings on by my ear on my neck and on the right side and just to day i have found another lump in the same spot but on my left side they are both really sore when i touch them the first one i found is just a little bit bigger they are really firm when i touch them they are not red its some thing under my skin can it be cancer my family history has a lot of people dieing from cancer my dad also had neck cancer please some one help im strating to get real scared i dont want to go to ther doctors cause im real scared of what they could say an dont wont to tell my mum and dad please any body no what it is