i'm looking for a way 2 spice up sex w/ my partner. we're not in a relationship but he's leaving the country soon and i want 2 end this fling w/ a bang. so i am looking 4 men's opinions on things we can do. some things 2 know:

-he likes to be the one in control / he doesn't want to be the one without the control
-we are from 2 different countries

things we have already done:

-he talks to me in his native language while we're having sex ( i don't understand it but it's a turn-on for both of us)
-we've played in front of a mirror
-we've done doggie style and various forms of missionary, and i've been on top
-we've listened to both slow music and fast, vigorous music
-we've done 69

-i've had him hold down my arms
-we've played w/ ice
-i've played w/ myself in front of him

so i would say we r pretty adventurous but i really want 2 wow him- but i also want 2 enjoy 2. so if u have any ideas that havent already been listed let me know, thanks! and we r also thinking bout blindfold/tying