For the last year i have been getting on my husband's case about being out of shape. Last summer he promised me he'd be in shape by april...it's almost march and no improvement. i feel terrible about bringing it up all the time, but i'm so frustrated. today i found a container of butterfinger ice cream 2/3 gone. HELP! how do i get the message across? it makes me so angry that he won't even make an effort on my behalf.