I have bouts of depression and anxiety that interfere with my ability to function. I am also extremely angry at my husband. My husband knows that now is an extremely stressful time but instead of being supportive he berates and belittles me for being the cause of all our problems. We have two small children and a frail elderly mother who I am responsible for. We recently moved to a new house that has needed extensive repairs and improvements. I am worried about finances and our children's future and I have some judgemental, controlling people trying to get into my business and criticize my actions. When I talk to my husband about my feelings he says all these problems are because of mistakes that I have made in dealing with people or situations. Everything that goes wrong, he says, must somehow be tied to some mistake I made. Apparently, somebody has to be blamed and I guess that must be me. I feel that I am an easy target. I am going back and forth between despair and rage.